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How does one get their self confidence back? I am struggling its like I turned 40 and the flare ups are just getting worse each one i have

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I was diagnosed 2 years ago. I have had these off and on most my adult life then it got bad and got refered to a dermatologist was diagnosed with severe HS and within a month had to have my armpit deroofed. Was on Cosentyx for 6 months did great until I lost insurance and couldnt get my monthly injections and now it continuously gets worse and now that im 40 i swear its more and more flare ups im having. I will get over 1 and 2 days later be getting 2 to 3 more lesions popping up.

February 11
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Benzoyl peroxide wash and dial bar soap, clindamycin lotion. 3 months of doxycycline. Hang in there

March 1
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How can you rebuild self-confidence when HS flares are getting worse?

First, know that you're not alone in this struggle. Many myHSteam members describe similar experiences with worsening flares affecting their confidence and daily life. The pain, appearance of lesions, and unpredictability can all take a toll on how you Show Full Answer

How can you rebuild self-confidence when HS flares are getting worse?

First, know that you're not alone in this struggle. Many myHSteam members describe similar experiences with worsening flares affecting their confidence and daily life. The pain, appearance of lesions, and unpredictability can all take a toll on how you feel about yourself.

Since you had success with Cosentyx before losing insurance, reconnecting with your dermatologist about treatment options is crucial. There may be patient assistance programs, alternative medications, or other solutions to help get your HS back under control. When symptoms improve, confidence often follows. Hormonal changes around age 40 can definitely impact HS. Some myHSteam members report that flares become more frequent or severe during perimenopause or after turning 40. Understanding that hormones may be playing a role can help you and your doctor develop a more targeted approach.

Consider these steps while working on treatment:

* Keep follow-up appointments even when things seem stable
* Track your flare patterns to identify triggers
* Connect with others who understand what you're going through
* Focus on lifestyle factors that may help reduce inflammation

Remember, HS is a chronic condition that requires ongoing management. You didn't cause this, and with the right support and treatment plan, you can work toward better control of your symptoms and regain confidence.

February 11

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