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Maby some men go through it to but because it’s hard to explain to ppl or others a lot of ppl are not educated or know about HS or because how you may feel or look at yourself others may also look at you the same way the scars on your breast groan area your butt

April 12, 2024
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A myHSteam Member

I’m really good at communicating it’s the conversation starter men can be very childish and closed minded when it come to these type of things

April 12, 2024
A myHSteam Member

Always has been for me. Tell the men in the beginning. Most part are ok with it. My husband told me he was and as it started to evolve was a lot for him. Now we are going to get a divorce. Honestly there were things about him way before my HS. I forgive him and really wish the best for him. We are cordial now.

April 12, 2024
A myHSteam Member

Oh yea I’m sure! I was just giving advice on what I do or I’ve done which isn’t always easy

April 13, 2024
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It's not uncommon for individuals with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS) to feel self-conscious about their scars and experience flare-ups, especially in intimate areas. This can indeed impact dating and intimate relationships. Many members of the HS community have shared feelings of being "gross and unattractive" due to Show Full Answer

It's not uncommon for individuals with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS) to feel self-conscious about their scars and experience flare-ups, especially in intimate areas. This can indeed impact dating and intimate relationships. Many members of the HS community have shared feelings of being "gross and unattractive" due to scarring, which profoundly affects their self-image and social activities, including dating. It's important to remember you're not alone in these feelings. Building a support network, whether through online communities like myHSteam or local support groups, can provide a space to share experiences and coping strategies. Open communication with potential partners about HS can also foster understanding and intimacy. Remember, your worth is not defined by your skin, and there are people out there who will see and appreciate you for who you are beyond your HS.

April 12, 2024

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