Oh don’t ever ever say that because that’s not true someone is out there for you and you will find them as you least expect it and you will find that you will be able to speak to that special person about this problem and if they truly love ❤️ you they will except it because it’s not your fault just like all of us here so just remember we are all in the same boat ⛴️ together and you will be happy again unfortunately you just might have met the wrong person this time but you will so never ever give up hope and I wish you all the very best of luck 🤞 with everything you take care of yourself and my door is always open to you if ever you want to speak to me about anything 🤞👍

Hey Baz, thank you for this. I don’t know why this time it has affected me this much. I think it’s just I wasn’t ready to tell him. It was quite early on and I wanted to get to know him better and tell him in a space where I felt comfortable. I really liked him and I knew I would have to , but I didn’t anticipate this situation happening where I was explaining and feeling terrified of what the reaction would be and that I would never hear from him again.

Exactly what I was afraid of, happened. Is it better to tell someone you’ve met right from the very start or wait until you know them better? Honestly , HS has made me feel I won’t be able to be intimate with anyone .😞

👋 amole don’t be embarrassed about HS it’s not something that you have done to get this crazy thing we have got but getting somebody that can accept it could be the hard part but you have to remember that if someone falls in love with you then they will accept it but you need to sit the other person down and show them what it does for example show them this site and they can read up about it and then they will accept that it’s not your fault that this nasty horrible condition has taken over your life and body but one thing I would say the right person will wait for you in many different ways 👍