It's completely normal to feel apprehensive about intimacy when dealing with HS, but remember, your self-worth isn't defined by your physical condition. Here are some steps to help you communicate and maintain intimacy with a partner:

1. **Start with Self-Acceptance**: Recognize your own value and understand that intima... read more

It's completely normal to feel apprehensive about intimacy when dealing with HS, but remember, your self-worth isn't defined by your physical condition. Here are some steps to help you communicate and maintain intimacy with a partner:

1. **Start with Self-Acceptance**: Recognize your own value and understand that intimacy starts with a positive relationship with yourself.

2. **Open Communication**: Gently introduce your condition to your partner. Explain what HS is, how it affects you, and what they might expect during flare-ups. This honesty can build trust and understanding.

3. **Focus on Comfort**: Share with your partner what feels good and what doesn’t, especially during flare-ups. This can help in focusing on the enjoyable aspects of intimacy.

4. **Seek Support**: Engaging in communities like myHSteam can provide additional support and advice from others who understand your situation.

5. **Professional Guidance**: Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor who can help you navigate these feelings and improve your self-image and communication skills.

Remember, intimacy is not just physical; it's also about emotional and mental connections.

 This AI-generated response comes from myHSteam and other selected sources. It is not a substitute for medical advice. Always ask your doctor about specific health concerns.

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